New from Dan Oakes MEd, LPC, CSAT

Your child will learn about sex.
The question is who teaches them.

A parent's guide to talking with children about sexuality, pornography, and healthy intimacy — grounded in attachment science and faith.

 
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This book is for you if....

  • You want to be the first voice your child hears on sexuality — not the internet
  • You grew up with silence or shame around this topic and want to break that cycle
  • You hold faith values and want guidance that honors them without fear-based teaching
  • You've had one awkward conversation and aren't sure how to keep going
  • You're a therapist or educator who works with parents and wants a resource to recommend 

What you get ....

  • The full book (82 pages) - Ten chapters of practical, research-backed guidance written for real parents, not academics
  • Age-by-age conversation guides - Exact language for ages 4–7, 8–11, and 12+ so you always know what to say
  • Parent reflection exercises - Work through your own story so you can show up without shame or fear for your kids
  • Bonus: Course access - Guided video lessons that walk you through the book chapter by chapter — at your own pace

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"I read chapter one sitting in my car in the driveway because I couldn't put it down. By chapter three I was crying. I didn't realize how much silence I'd been passing on."

— Parent, Mesa AZ

"The shame cycle diagram alone was worth it. I finally understood why my teenager kept getting stuck. This changed how I approach everything."

— Mother of three, faith-based home

"So practical and immediately applicable, a long overdue resource for every parent"

— School counselor